Frequently Asked Questions
I want to serve, but I value my privacy and do not want to participate in the vetting process.
My vetting process is absolute, I will not put myself at risk of potential danger. That being said; discretion is my number one priority (behind safety of course). I would never do anything to compromise you. Not only is that a terrible thing to do to someone, doing so would only hurt my reputation .
What will a session look like?
There is no "catch all" answer to this question; each session will be unique based on the interests you provide in your application and the chemistry we have when we meet. I will
What should I bring/wear?
Wear vanilla clothing when you enter my space - absolutely zero fetish gear is allowed outside - you will be turned away and your deposit will be forfeit. Be sure you are comfortable, clean and freshly showered, there is a shower in the dungeon if you need to use it.
Gifts are never expected but always appreciated. Some of my favorites are dark chocolate & red wine.
What are your hard limits?
I do not offer any sexual services - I am a BDSM provider only; I will not offer any kind of "job".
I do not conduct sessions while topless or nude.
No face sitting unless I'm fully clothed.
No kissing
No wrestling
No FTT. No showers of any kind.
I do not switch in any capacity.
No cuckolding or forced-bi.
I do not do anything that I do not have the expertise to do safely.
No Smoking of any kind.
No Public Play (outside of kink events)
No Race Play
I have a session interest that isn't listed on your form, does that mean you won't do it?
That's not what that means at all, it would be impossible for me to list every kink out there so I chose a few of my favorites. Just let me know in your session request form what you are interested in and we can discuss whether it is something that I can do.
Are you looking for a personal submissive?
I am not looking for any kind of personal dynamics, please do not ask me about this.